Every girl’s dream is to have a man next to her who will love her the way she deserves. But what happens when everything is not that easy? Maybe it is time to take off your rose-colored glasses and realize once and for all that he is not into you that much. If you are not quite sure what he feels for you, here are some things that can help you see if your man is into you and if he is planning to have a future with you.
1. He doesn’t respect you
Respect is a key to a stable and successful relationship. If you see that your man isn’t respecting you, that is a big red flag that you should leave him and move on. He is just someone who takes you for granted, thinking that you will always be there when he needs you.
Well, show him that he is wrong and leave on time. When he loses you, he will realize that he made a big mistake and he won’t treat any other woman the way he treated you. That is definitely a life lesson he has to learn.
2. He doesn’t support your dreams
There are a lot of relationships where men are jealous of their woman’s career. Because of that, they will never support her dreams. They will never say that they are proud of her and they will avoid talking about her job. No woman can be truly happy and satisfied in a relationship like that, so the best way to fix that problem is to sit and talk.
If you see that your man is stubborn and that his pride is more important than his love for you, you should just give him a one-way ticket!
3. He doesn’t have time for you
If your man is just making stupid excuses about being preoccupied with his stuff, it means that he is not that into you. If he loves you, he would have made you his priority but this kind of behavior sends a totally different message. By doing this, he says that he can see you, but it won’t be a problem if he doesn’t do that. And a man like this is never a man in love.
4. A long-term relationship is just not his thing
If a guy tells you openly that a long-term relationship is not what he wants at this moment, you can bet that he is just leading you on. He is just a fuckboy who wants to go from one girl to another. He doesn’t want to commit and he will never want that. To prevent yourself from tears, leave him in time and thank God that you got rid of him.
5. He doesn’t listen to you
The point of having a boyfriend is feeling good in your skin with him. If you are serving up your deepest emotions in front of him but he prefers checking out that hot waitress, you have nothing to do with him. You are too good to be with him and you should tell him that.
Explain to him that relationships are all about love and respect, and that with him, you have a lack of both. Hopefully, he will realize that he was wrong, but this time it will be too late for the two of you.
6. He doesn’t want to get to know you better
No matter if the two of you have been dating for ages or just for a couple of months, he should constantly be interested in you. A man who loses interest is not a man who is head over heels in love with you. He is just dating you because it is convenient for him to do so. He is not the one who would die for you and he is definitely not the one you will marry.
7. He makes you believe that everything is your fault
No matter if you made a problem out of something or not, he will always blame you for whatever happened. You will always be a trouble in his life and whatever he has to say about it, he will tell you. Trust me, you will feel like crap because he is accusing you of things that you didn’t do. That kind of a relationship is definitely toxic and you should get away from there ASAP.
8. He doesn’t care about your emotions
He is the type of a man who will stand proudly in front of you while you are crying over some problems in your life. He won’t even reach his hand toward you to make you feel better. He won’t even say that things will get better and that you can count on him whatever happens. The man like that will never care about your feelings and he surely won’t do anything to make you feel happy.